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For Birth Parents
Is adoption the right choice?
How to create an adoption plan for
your child. It is your decision – we
can help you finding a good caring
adoptive family ... more
Understanding your choices
|Pregnant? Unplanned pregnancy? Don’t panic... You have choices!|
At Adopting Choices, we are here to listen and help.
|You will be going through many emotions. Feeling fear, shock, denial, alone, ashamed, scared or confused are all normal. However, you do not have to feel alone. Adopting Choices will work with you and for you. You will find your inner strength and courage. At Adopting Choices we treat you with care and respect. You will be able to be honest and candid. You will receive the best professional counseling. You will make it through this.|
If you decide to parent the baby there are many things to consider. There are emotional, financial, medical needs, childcare arrangements, lack of sleep to name a few. Raising a child is a major lifestyle change, and we will help you get there. Do you have a support system? We will help you provide the best possible life for your baby.
With an adoption plan through Adopting Choices you would arrange a good life for your unborn child. We know you love your child and will never forget them. Our adoption planning is always made with the best interest of the child in mind. You as the birth parents select the adoptive parents. You can find the perfect family for your baby. Remember the miracle of adoption is your choice. The adoptive parents will meet your criteria. Adoptive parents cherish birth mothers. We will help you work out a plan and support you every step of the way. Each adoption relationship is unique. You can decide to meet the adoptive parents. Future contact can vary.
| ||Birth parents who choose adoption for their babies love them very, very much. It is not an easy decision and you will feel grief and loss. Reassurance can come from knowing that you made the decision based on what you believe is best for your child.|
An open adoption gives you an opportunity to chose your childs parents. You will relinquish legal parenting and child rearing rights to the adoptive parents. Your child will know that you chose to make an adoption plan because you love and care deeply about him or her. Some birthparents choose not to have contact any contact.
While the birth mother cannot consent until after the child is born, in Connecticut the waiting period is 48 hours after birth. This gives you, as the birthparent, the opportunity to feel the decision you make is the right one.
About birthfathers. The birthfather is an important and valued person in the life of a child and in the planning around the best interests of the child. Sometimes though, it not always possible for the birthfather to be involved. Perhaps you are no longer seeing the birthfather or may not be on good terms with him or may not even know who he is. He may not even be aware of your pregnancy. We will help you get through the legal and emotional maze of notifying a potential birthfather.
There aren’t any fees for the birth parents.
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